How I Went from Very Shy to Less Shy

I have always been a very shy person. When I was younger, I can remember not doing a lot of things because I was too shy. I would cry if I had to open Christmas presents in front of anyone other than close family. I didn't learn how to skate because I was too shy to participate in the lessons. Granted, I may have lacked the encouragement that could have pushed me to do more at a younger age.

Despite that, one of the very first things that got me out of my shyness was being a good speller, and generally my teacher's favorite student. In third grade, I participated in the school spelling bee. Out of maybe 15 students, I came in fourth, unfortunately and did not receive anything tangible from the contest. I did, however, receive some confidence. In fourth grade, I remember my teacher approaching me and asked me to represent the class as an Associated Student Body Representative. This also gave me a bit of encouragement and inspired me to get over my shyness.

The biggest impact was in high school. Where normally, freshmen are discouraged and face traumatic experiences, I flourished. I was an active participant in Future Community and Career Leaders of America (FCCLA) and Future Business Leaders of America (FBLA). I even ran for regional vice-president (due to personal reasons, did not finish the election) in FBLA and was the chapter Treasurer. These experiences allowed me to come out of my shell and, though I still have moments of shyness, I am much more confident in myself. In retrospect, I can take from this the ability to encourage and foster my son's self-confidence. If anyone has met him, you'd know he is the opposite of shy! :)

My husband and my son also continue to encourage, inspire and support my efforts. I am very blessed to have such wonderful friends and family in my life. I have a lot of endeavors and am still trying to find the perfect fit for myself. My interests have tended to stay around business, however, and I am focusing on business consulting while finishing my degree. Through education, intellectual opinions and work experience, I know I have a lot to offer.